No good deed goes unpunished.
We’ve all been there.
Right?
For years, this has been a regular saying between my good
buddy and me. And for years, I
thought how unfair that was. And
for years, she and I have proven the fact to be true. When I first heard it, I thought
“Really?” That doesn’t sound
right.
Immediately I am reminded of the time when I was delivering a home cooked meal to an elderly widowed gentleman in our church. I remember it was a fallish sort of day. It was very hard to pull up his driveway because of the location and erosion so I parked next door at his son’s house. There was a slight little hill I had to walk to get to the gentleman’s house. On this particular day, the pine needles had really accumulated. Here I go, bebopping along in my self-satisfaction of doing such a wonderful thing for someone who needed a lift. I had the foil-covered delicious smelling food in my hands and my purse on my shoulder. I start down the pine-straw covered incline and—you guessed it. My feet slipped out from under me and down I went. Hard. My tailbone hurt like crazy and so did other parts of my body. That ground might have been pine-straw covered but it was still hard. Really hard. As I dropped to the ground, I still had a sharp enough mind those years ago to protect that food so I held my arms out straight and held it tightly. I actually had to sit there a minute as I even felt that my head and brain goo had sloshed around, I hit so hard. I managed to get myself up and put on a smile and delivered the food to the door to a very grateful man. But…no good deed goes unpunished. I hurt for days. And days. And days.
Immediately I am reminded of the time when I was delivering a home cooked meal to an elderly widowed gentleman in our church. I remember it was a fallish sort of day. It was very hard to pull up his driveway because of the location and erosion so I parked next door at his son’s house. There was a slight little hill I had to walk to get to the gentleman’s house. On this particular day, the pine needles had really accumulated. Here I go, bebopping along in my self-satisfaction of doing such a wonderful thing for someone who needed a lift. I had the foil-covered delicious smelling food in my hands and my purse on my shoulder. I start down the pine-straw covered incline and—you guessed it. My feet slipped out from under me and down I went. Hard. My tailbone hurt like crazy and so did other parts of my body. That ground might have been pine-straw covered but it was still hard. Really hard. As I dropped to the ground, I still had a sharp enough mind those years ago to protect that food so I held my arms out straight and held it tightly. I actually had to sit there a minute as I even felt that my head and brain goo had sloshed around, I hit so hard. I managed to get myself up and put on a smile and delivered the food to the door to a very grateful man. But…no good deed goes unpunished. I hurt for days. And days. And days.
Many other times I have experienced the truth of this saying
and I’m sure that you have as well.
This morning, though, I discovered something about that saying that I
honestly never caught before.
I was doing my Bible reading and since lately I haven’t had
any special thing to read, I just thought and said, “Hmmm, what shall I read
today?” At once, I thought “the
Peters”. So I began to read I
Peter. You will never guess what I
found. Or if you’re a more regular
Bible reader than me, you might guess and be correct.
I Peter 3:17 says “For it is better, if the will of God be
so, that ye suffer for well doing, than for evil doing.”
Well, isn’t that a good one? Suffer for well-doing. And that is better. Goes right along with “no good deed goes unpunished” if you stretch it just a bit. I would imagine that suffering for a good deed is much
better than suffering for an evil deed. Or at least that is how I interpret. I think that a guilty conscience can be
a much worse suffering than a sore tailbone! Hope I can just stick with the suffering for well doing
rather than evil.
I can’t wait to tell my good buddy what I found…but then
maybe she knew it was there already.
Guess I need to remember, too, that “pride goeth before a
fall”. ;-) I just might elaborate on that in another post later on. Look forward to it.
I have always heard that saying and even used it myself a few times. Thanks for sharing the scripture...never knew it was there...or if I did I never put the two together. Will have to remember the scripture instead of the saying from now on!
ReplyDeleteKristie
Yet another wonderful post from our friend!! :-) Thank you!!
ReplyDeleteTina B.