Sunday, August 3, 2014

A LITTLE REFLECTING....


Well summer is closer to the ending than to the beginning.  You won’t hear me say I’m sorry about that.  I love fall season and the cooler, colorful time it brings with it.

Part of today’s sermon scripture was taken from one of my many favorite passages of scripture—Philippians 3: 13, 14 and it goes like this:

“Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended; but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,

I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.”

I do love those Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians, and Colossians books of the New Testament.  And I love that scripture—it was yellow in my Bible, meaning I have read it often and marked it as special.   

As I prepare in this present time to “reach forth to those things which are before”, I try to pray for guidance for what “those things before” will mean to me.  I know that life holds a lot of things that cause us pain and discomfort physically, mentally, and emotionally.  Life can dish out some doozies, or so I like to say.  As I age, too, I say I am rarely surprised at anything any more.

Reflecting on the unknown future, I find comfort and confidence that no matter what comes my way, I will have the Lord there with me giving me strength and courage to face it.  The Pastor today talked about how one should grow and if one is 70, they should be more grown spiritually than they were at fifteen.  I know that is the truth and pray that if the Lord will that my 49 year walk with Him continues,  I will continue to grow in his grace, knowledge, and love.   With spiritual age comes wisdom and experience….I look forward to wisdom and experience, don’t you?  I can try to do my part in the process!

Friday, July 25, 2014

GOO GONE?

Great news from my life....my sutures from the Moh's surgery were removed this week. Yay!  The skin graft has a couple more weeks or so of healing to do but the sutures and bandage are gone!  I was and continue to be a happy girl.

Not gone was the goo of liberal Aquafor that had accumulated in my hair during the past two plus weeks.  What a mess!  I had asked in my last post if anyone knew a remedy and obviously no one did.  I tried the internet solutions and still had the goo in my hair.

I finally thought of a very wise experienced hairdresser that The Girl and The Son-in-Law go to for their hair styling needs. She, luckily, had a sales representative coming into her business establishment just yesterday and planned to ask him.   Here's what she called and told me that he recommended.



Last night The Husband helped and I knew when my hair squeaked in the gooey area after shampooing that success was achieved.  Yay!  Here's how you do it:

Make a thick paste of baking soda and shampoo (any kind of shampoo will work).  Apply paste to DRY hair.  (This is important as wet hair and the goo hinder the working of the concoction.  Some scientific thing to do with hair cuticle.)  Rub and massage the paste into the hair really good.  Let stay on hair for 15 minutes.  Shower/wash out paste mixture and shampoo hair as usual.  Squeaky clean!  

Needless to say I am thrilled.  Totally.  That goo was beginning to really bother me and life is just too short for bothers of that nature.

I also learned from The Wise Hairdresser a remedy for getting chewing gum out of hair so I'll share those ingredients with you.  The instructions are pretty much the same as the goo recipe.  You only need these two ingredients mixed together to apply to the hair.



So now I have done my community service and supplied the remedy for goo-ey hair.  I hope all remember should all ever have use of the remedy.   It's nice that my blog is sometimes user-friendly, isn't it?   



Saturday, July 12, 2014

VANITY

Humans can be really funny in how they think.  Really, you say?  Maybe silly is another description.  How many times have I thought that very thing in different situations of others.  Guilty?  Uh huh.  We all are.  I decided when I experienced that this morning with my own self (imagine--surely not me!), I would be a sport and confess.

I'll give some background from my week which will help you see the humor of the situation.  Two or three months ago, I had my annual visit with my dermatologist to see if I had any skin problems anywhere.  She tells me that as one ages, it's more important.  Actually as one ages, they go to her and have their face examined at six months and all themselves examined at one year.  Yes, I am in that "aged" group.  It is what it is.

This visit, there was a questionable spot on my head.  In my hair.  On top of a birthmark I've had for 58+ years.  She felt the need to biopsy and less than two days later, she called to tell me it was a basal cell cancer and would need Moh's surgery.  I'll try to condense so you won't be bored here....got an appointment a month out for consult, took biopsied spot two months to heal, and had a surgery date for this past Monday.  I anticipated it so it would be over and dreaded it because of the healing process in the heat of summer.  At the consult, there was no way to predict how big or small the wound would be or how closure would be.  They just tell you to bring a book and a sweater and plan to stay the day.
I did stay the day....was the last to leave the parking lot.

The initial size cut was a nickel size.  I hoped it was enough and all.  It wasn't.  There were superficial cells that the surgeon had told me about that tended to grow out.  They did.  It took three times before all was clear.  I was doing okay until bleeding began between cuts two and three.  Then my nerves began to jump a bit.  I was exceptionally happy when he said the third time was a charm.  I kept in contact with The Husband and The Girl via texts.  Yes, The Husband now has texting on his phone...he who doesn't really "live in that world"...but I'll give him credit....he could text back "OK" and "Imglad".  Comforting to me as I had been told I would be fine alone and had argued that point with many family members and friends and won, so alone I was.

Closure was a challenge with the doctor, physician's assistant, and medical assistant and with all six of their hands pushing and pulling at my small head for some time.  It took over an hour.  By then my nerves were really racked and I felt as though I had a face lift.  I got sutures and a small skin graft in an area that was not closing.   After the sutures were done, I asked how many there were--since folks in my family would ask, I was certain.  The number of sutures is important in my family.  The PA said 35+.  Now that may be normal for such a wound or it may not, but it sounded impressive to me so I thought I would tell you.

I have those sutures for two weeks instead of the one week as I was previously told.  I also have physical restrictions for those two weeks that totally mess up the routine in my life.  The Husband is strict and won't allow me to do anything that he deems "strenuous"--that is if he sees me doing it.  And I readily admit that the pain in my head keeps me from doing many things as the pulling and tightening still hurts.  I, the queen of high pain tolerance, was on the pain medicine for the first 24 hours or so as the pain was REALLY bad.  I even got a couple of pajama days out of the event.

The Husband is a wonderful nurse, doing the dressing change, cleaning, and doctoring daily.  His skills are good enough.


Nine more days of those skills.  The pulling off of the bandage daily is a painful thing.  We decided best to get started and then just give a yank.  OUCH....The surgeon likes to preserve what hair he can and I have a lot of preserved hair.  I explained to the surgeon in the beginning that I was not a vain person and do what he had to do to get it all.  It's as I always told The Husband back when I was his front porch barber--no one really pays attention to how the back of your hair looks.  This statement often came as a form of reassurance after "oops" slipped from my lips at various hair cutting times.

I did buy a couple of hats after the biopsy as I was told I would need to wear hats out in the sun the rest of my life.  I don't mind.  I am thrilled to be lily white forever.  Sun worshiping and suntans are very over-rated.  Wish I could make others understand that.   I wear my hats these two weeks anytime I leave my house and go out in public as I figure the bandage is very bold and distracting.  There's enough distractions in the world without my adding to them.  Here's my hats:


The black one is my favorite, the tan was The Girl's leftover from high school, and the white was a Ross special.  Good hat choices, I think.

So to the subject of my post.  After four days of Aquafor (an upgrade vaseline type product) on my wound and washing my hair in cooler water, I have a grease pit for the right side of my hair.  Ahhhh....there's more grease in that part of my hair than there is in the guys' hair in the movie, Grease.  I understand the greasy part of the wound, but how did it ever get in the good part of my hair that is not bandaged?  Geez.

The Husband tells me it doesn't matter but it still is so annoying to me.  Is it a vanity thing?  Could be a bit.  I think more so, it's an uncomfortable mess that feels dirty.  I hate that.  I have consulted the internet yet again (yes, I know the internet is not gospel), but it says I can put cornstarch or baking soda on that greasy part, then wash it out and it will get rid of the grease.  Maybe some of you, my faithful blog readers, know a solution.  If you do, please share with me.  The Husband reminded me how badly the white vinegar/water cleaning solution hurts my wound so something else might be very painful and not so good for it.  I explained I was smarter than that--I was only putting it on the hair BELOW the bandage...the good hair that is greasy and sticks to my neck.  I explained to him it was a "girl thing".  Men just don't understand "girl things".  But I do love my strict husband and the care he is taking of me and my wound.  I cannot do the mirror thing at all with it so I am dependent on him for ten more days.  He did offer a smile when I voiced my anticipation of the 21st and washing my hair with no stitches in it and no bandage.

A bit later I was thinking and realized that a little greasy hair is not going to change me.  My life is not going to be empty if my hair stays greasy.   I may have greasy hats and a greasy neck and a greasy pillow but in the grand scheme of life, it's not a big woo.  The world won't stop turning because of it.  I guess when I really get down to it, I'm not so overly vain after all.  I could allow this mess in my head and hair to keep me home for two weeks but I will not miss life because of vanity.   Life's too short as it is.  And I had a basal cell cancer that is now all gone so I can rejoice and be glad.  And I do and am.

And after all, who REALLY cares how an "aged" person looks anyways?


Wednesday, June 25, 2014

SAFE


Summer vacation/staycation 2014 is past.  Yes, it was last week.  The Husband went again to Louisiana on a fishing trip while I chose to stay home.  Many of my regular blog readers might recall that I look forward to my staycation and a pajama day during that time.  This year I factored in two pajama days in my staycation itinerary.  Neither happened.  I got maybe slightly less than half a pajama day.  It was one of those staycations that had problems every single day.   Yes.  Every. Single. Day.  When it was over, I needed a vacation.  I won’t bore you with what happened every day but do want to tell you about the most memorable of the days. 

A week ago yesterday, Tuesday, was the day.  I’ll backtrack just a bit by saying that on Saturday night, I locked my front storm door as I always do when alone for the night.  For some reason, I needed to go onto the porch after that and alas, the door would NOT unlock.  Ahh.   I go in and out my front porch storm door on a regular basis so this was a problem.  I tried and tried.  The Girl and The Son-in-law came and tried and tried.  I did WD-40, I tried the key on the outside, but nothing opened the door.  On Sunday when I talked to The Husband on the phone, he told me various things to do and I had already tried them all.  Actually I felt very smart that I had tried them all as quite honestly, I’m not a storm door lock fixer on most days.  I will admit to consulting the internet for repair techniques.  One knows if it’s on the internet, it has to be true.  Yeah.  Right.   Final advice from The Husband was to wait until he got home on Friday…almost a week away… and he would fix it. 

Fast forward to Tuesday.  The fact that this storm door would not open was still weighing heavily on my mind…almost burdening my mind.  I had errands to do on that morning and kept thinking that I might try to fix the door.  I made stops at neighborhood hardware stores to ask advice.  I arrived home after lunch and about 2 p.m. started gathering up tools I needed from the garage.  As I was doing this, I received a call from my mother asking if I was home as mega policemen had went by her house towards mine with sirens screaming.  I assured her I was fine and that thousands of people lived between her and me and not to worry, it could be anything.  Around that time I began to hear sirens as well and wondered what might be happening but carried on with the possibility of a storm door that would unlock upmost in my mind. 

 After many trips from my back porch to my front porch to the garage and about 50 minutes later, that storm door was open.  I would love to tell you everything I did but that’s not the main point of my story and you will become bored.  I will say I felt very empowered after the repair—“I am woman, hear me roar.”  Here are photos of the door as it was and as it is now.  A picture is worth a thousand words.





So as I was using my little wrench to reapply the door handle, I heard LOUD helicopter sounds above my house.  Huh.  That helicopter sounded serious and was flying very low.  I went out into the front yard to try to see but couldn’t see through the trees.  I came in, locked the front door, went out the back to look out the back yard and couldn’t see there either.  Keep in mind, both doors had been unlocked for an hour.  This is important in my story.  Being the Gladys Kravitz (nosey neighbor from Bewitched for those of you who remember her) that I was, I locked both doors, got in my car, and went out my driveway to the right to see if I could determine why the helicopter was there.  I went up the hill and around the curve and saw police stationed at the end of my road.  I stopped and was told that they were searching for a fugitive in my neighborhood.  The policeman told me I could go on through, but I explained that I was just nosey and would head back home.  As I start to be headed back home, he told me to go in the house and lock the doors.  One doesn’t have to tell me that twice….back home I went and locked all my doors.   I also looked in all my closets and bathtubs to be sure no one was there who shouldn’t be there.  I called my neighbor to the left (a member of my church family) and she told me that the police, US marshals, and swat team were parked in her driveway looking for a guy who tried to run over a marshal who had run down behind her house in the woods….she lives on the opposite side of the street to me and down a way.  We agreed to keep in touch during the afternoon’s activities and I sent an email to The Girl to tell her what was going on. 

About five minutes later, The Girl called and sounded worried.  She had found the police scanner online and had just heard them say they were in The Neighbor’s  yard, the another neighbor’s yard, and now were in my driveway.  I looked out my window and it looked like something from a movie.  There was a car diagonally at the head of my driveway halfway blocking entrance.  There were what looked to be 25-30 various kinds of law enforcement men carrying long guns….oh, and there was a bloodhound sniffing in the front of the group.  As they got closer to the house in my long driveway, I opened the front door AND the storm door.  Remember the one that burdened me so much that it wouldn’t open?  Uh huh.  That one.  I wanted them to know I was in my house for one thing and I wanted to know information.  Two of them immediately put up their hands for me to stay quiet and still.  Two of them came on my porch to ask if I was alone, tell me to stay inside, lock ALL my doors, and don’t come out.  Uh…I don’t have to be told that more than once.  In a bit, they came back around the other side of my house, and a dozen of them stayed at the end of my porch by the woods with the dog while the others went back to the head of my driveway.  They all got their exercise on that hot day as I have a long driveway and big yard.   By this time, The Neighbor and I had talked many times and my phone had begun to ring for information from friends who had heard the story on the television news.  Both house and cell phones rang and rang and rang and rang.....

I just watched from the windows as they meandered around my yard and at my woods.  After about half an hour, I got to thinking that I might not have locked back the garage.  I opened my front door AND cracked my storm door to motion to a policeman who immediately came to the porch and door.  I told him that I had been outside with my doors all open and the garage as well during the time I was hearing sirens in the neighborhood.  His eyes got big, he asked for a garage key, took it, motioned for others to follow him.  Some came from the head of my driveway and they searched the garage.  It was locked but they searched anyways.  As he came back with my key, he asked if I had looked under my beds and I told him no, just my closets and bathtubs.  He suggested he wait there while I looked.  I don’t know why I didn’t suggest I wait there while HE looked but I did know that under my beds are storage boxes and no 200 lb fugitive could fit.  So I looked.  As he began to walk away I did ask why they were concentrated there at my house and he said that the bloodhounds had tracked the fugitive there to my yard and woods.  That was NOT comforting.  Nor was the phone call from The Friend telling me the television news said he was armed and dangerous.  No one had told me that.  They should have.

After another hour or so of watching the activity in my yard and around my woods,  I did move from the window as my sister said that was not the safest place to be.  I hadn’t thought of that.  In my movie watching, there’s not violence but I had to be reminded this was not a movie.  And the long guns were real.  As were the ones strapped to legs in holsters.  The Neighbor warned me that these kinds of bullets would go through my house walls and maybe I should find an inside wall.  These conversations made me a tad jumpy.

I watched as four more agents and a bloodhound walked to the beginning of my driveway and the dog sniffed down the middle of my yard, made a right past the blueberry bushes, sniffed down the edge of the woods, around the wood shed, and then off into the woods. It wasn’t too long after that the agents all loaded up and left out the driveway to the left toward The Neighbor’s house.    It was 7:15 p.m. by then.

I did spend the night with The Girl and The Son-in-Law that night, returning to my house the next morning.  All the police were gone and they were certain the fugitive, while not caught, was not in our county.  They were right as he was sighted in a southern county a few hours away and captured the next night.  He had somehow crossed the main road to the left and stolen a truck.  On the tv news, he got out of a four door truck that was familiar to me as were the faces of some of the agents…the truck was at my garage door for a while the day before as were the agents in my yard. 

I never really was afraid until the agents vacated my property and I was alone.   Later, too, when I watched the news video and saw the guy after he was captured and got out of the truck handcuffed, he seemed very large to me, much larger than the photo they were posting the day before.  As The Husband said later on, it could have ended much differently.  My doors being opened could have allowed him entrance to our house….my being in the yard could have gotten me as a hostage….yes, it could have been a really bad ending.  Thankfully, though, it was not.   I was jumpy for a day or two but I have gotten stronger as the days have passed.   

Looking back at the experience, I see Romans 8:28 in action yet again in my life.  I needed that storm door fixed.  I was given knowledge from within to do it.  The Lord watched over me and kept me safe.  I knew He was and found comfort in that.  It’s an experience I will most likely never forget and most likely will give thanks each time I recall it to memory.  I will be encouraged that the Lord is always here, watching, and keeping me.  I will know, too, that should danger come, He will be there still helping and watching and keeping.  

I am reminded of verses from one of my favorite Psalms—Psalms 91:

“He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.

I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God, in him will I trust.

Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence.

He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.

Thou shall not be afraid for the terror by night: nor for the arrow that flieth by day.

……

There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.

For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.”

Someone remarked that it was a good thing that day was not a planned pajama day for me.  And they were right.  I actually kept on my good errand clothes in case the tv folks came to interview me, but they did not...just filmed my driveway instead.   Oh well....

As for my repairing skills, lest The Husband think I was going to become a repairwoman in our house, I assured him that I was not.  It was hopefully a one time deal.    My sense of empowerment, however, still remains.  Just sayin’…..

Saturday, June 21, 2014

JUNE 21

Two years ago on this date, I wrote my first blog post.  Guess that means it's "Happy Birthday Blog" day!

More  importantly is the subject of that first post on June 21, 2012 as well as the subject of the post on June 21, 2013.  The diabetes anniversary of The Girl's diabetes diagnosis would be that subject.  I thought I might would have let this day go by without an acknowledgement but I just can't.

23 years.  That's how long The Girl has had diabetes.  In spite of my lagging memory bank these days, I can still remember as though it just happened today.   The fear of the unknown.   A blank mind in shock.  The facts to learn how to live with diabetes.  It's all very fresh when I sit and ponder.

The most important thing, though, is not the past.  It's the present.  Now.  It's the fact that even though the sugars are up and down, some days they are very normal.  Control is becoming more controlled.   More advancements are being made every day for betterment of control and even the search for a cure continues.  Just this week there has been talk on the news of a bionic pancreas.  I grew up in the time of The Bionic Man and The Bionic Woman....yes, wouldn't miss the shows on TV, but a bionic pancreas.  Really?  Wow.

With diabetes as with any problem, health issue, or fear in life, one has to face it and do the very best possible.  I have a wonderful respect and pride for The Girl and all she deals with on a daily basis.  I won't tell you that living with diabetes is easy, it's surely not.  I think The Girl's attitude has been a huge positive help for her along her way....Instead of asking "Why me?", she asks, "Why NOT me?"  And even though I know many days she wishes it were not a part of her life, she does her best and never wallows in self-pity...or at least if she wallows in it for a time, it's not long enough to become saturated with it. She's entitled on occasion, I think.

More than anything, I am filled with endless love for The Girl who calls me "mama".  As the old saying goes--she is beautiful inside and out--and that's the truth for sure.  The Girl is a wonderful daughter, wife, and child of God.  She has become such a spiritual woman of faith, seeking God's will in her life, and following Him while trusting His guidance.  Not too shabby, I would say....and I know that as proud as I am of her, The Girl is HIS child first and He surely is smiling with joy on her and her life.  She has learned that, as it says in 2 Corinthians 12:9:

 "My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness."

And I am certain we can ALL give a big "AMEN" to that!

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

TIS' THE SEASON!

Strawberry season, that is!  About three weeks ago, I made a trip to Hokes Bluff, Alabama--hometown of The Son-In-Law.  He had told me there was a farm there that grew various fruits and vegetables and that their strawberries were in season.  Can you believe I have never in my almost sixty years picked strawberries?

I decided to just take myself there and pick some.  Yes, it is a two hour trip one way and yes, I went alone....just me, myself, and I.  I did stop at the The Son-In-Law's parents' house as he told me his dad was off work and wanted to go along to help.  The schedule was to enjoy a lunch afterwards at Gadsden's world famous Shoney's restaurant.  The Son-In-Law as jealous--not of the picking but of the meal at Gadsden's world famous Shoney's restaurant.

We arrived at the farm and it was REALLY big.  After being directed what part of the patch had been less picked, we headed down the rows to the designated spot, carrying our 10 pails.  I began to get really excited as those strawberries were so big and beautiful.  The wind was blowing a bit but the sun was hot in spite of that.  I picked and The Son-In-Law's daddy picked.  It was the most fun I'd had in a while.  I want to go back next year and pick again!  We picked 10 gallons in about 45 minutes.  They looked like this:



Plump, beautiful, and soooo tasty!

The challenge was to  figure how to get all those strawberries situated in my car to keep them good for the two hour ride home....and while I ate a nice lunch with The Son-In-Law's parents at the Gadsden Shoney's restaurant.

I came home and worked for a day and a half on the 8.5 gallons that were mine.  I now have over 25 bags of strawberries various ways....strawberries whole unsweetened, strawberries sliced sweetened for cakes and cobblers, pureed strawberries for ice cream......ah....it was worth every single minute.  And yes, I plan to return next spring.

I could give you a comparison between this adventure and the Lord's goodness but I won't.  I'll just end with this favorite Bible verse of mine:

"O taste and see that the Lord is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him."  Psalm 34:8

Yum!!!!!!!

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Uh huh....again!


Warning:  This is going to be an exceptionally long post but stay with me here.

I had another slimy snake encounter last week.  Uh huh.  Way too many going on for my snake-scared self.   It could be classified as one of those “no good deed goes unpunished” times as well.  I was walking some get-well cards (hence the good deed) to my mailbox.  I am certainly a creature of habit because I ALWAYS walk my long driveway as I drive….on the right.

I was admiring the beauty of the day, put the cards in the mailbox, and turned to walk back.   On the right side.  I stopped near the road where my hydrangeas were beginning to sprout and I also admired my thirtysomething year old red maple we got for our first anniversary.  I reached and took off a couple of scraggly pieces from the hydrangea and immediately had a passing thought of snakes.  (I think the Lord just warns me somehow.)  As I turned and put my foot back on the driveway, I immediately noticed a green striped snake there.  Uh huh.  It wasn’t moving and granted it was only about six inches or so, but a snake is a snake—big, small, long, short, dead, alive—there’s no good to them….at least in MY world.  Plus that snake had a mama somewhere.  I IMMEDIATELY began walking towards the house—on the right side of the driveway—and headed toward my back porch where my snake--ridding hoe was stored.  I store it there just in case—NEVER expecting to use it.    All the way my mind was screaming over and over again, “Oh, no.  OH NO.”   Did I say that I was home alone?  I was.  Unfortunately.

I got the hoe and my mind was still screaming as I walked back up the driveway.  On the right side with the hoe outstretched.  I told myself  that I could do it.  I got back in sight of the thing and got just close enough that my snake-ridding hoe could reach it when I realized that it was still not moving.  It was dead already.   The Husband must have hit it with his truck when he left.  Ahhh…..so I turn around and walked back down my driveway.  On the right side.    As I was walking back I had another idea.  I put the snake-ridding hoe back in it’s place, got my car keys, got in my car, shut the door, opened the garage door, backed out, closed the garage door, and headed my car up the driveway.  In the middle of course.  I got to the snake, aimed my front left tire, and ran over it!  I backed up and did this again three times, assuring me the snake was dead.  Then I got back to the house and called The Husband who was to be home soon and asked him to stop up there on his way in and remove it far and away from the driveway.  He agreed, since he’s a respectful husband.  Of course he had a hard time locating it when he stopped and I walked back halfway up the driveway (on the right side) to direct him. 

When he got in the house, I told him the whole story as I have told you.  He began to shake with what I think was laughter, then saw the seriousness I had of the whole situation, and caught himself.  He is smart enough to know it's not a good idea to laugh at or with the wife when the wife is NOT laughing.   He simply asked, “Why, when you had the hoe there, did you not move it yourself?”  I replied, “My brain didn’t tell my hands and arms to move the hoe that way.  Plus as long as I have a husband and a son-in-law, I don’t have too.”  With a smile, he replied, “I guess you’re right.”  And he was right.  I WAS right.

So the whole experience made me think of my neighborhood for all these years.  When The Husband and I moved here thirtysomething years ago, our house sat amidst neighbors who were all related.  They just sort of accepted us as their relatives as well.  The patriarch and matriarch of the family lived across the street and down, still in sight of my mailbox, brothers lived down a bit further, and the girl of the family lived across the street.  They were so precious.  Their whole family had that good Southern accent and everytime they would meet for any special occasion, cars would be parked everywhere and you could hear the sounds of those voices with that accent while they all visited and loved each other.   It was the sound of joy and ALWAYS made The Husband and I smile.   The majority of them have moved on up to heaven where I’ll bet they are still visiting and loving.

The Across the Street Neighbors had three beautiful girls who babysat a bit for The Girl when we needed sitters.  Their family spent a lot of time in the summer on their front porch.  I would love sitting on my porch and hearing the sounds of laughter from theirs.  It was the sound of rightness, you know?   I would always find that the sounds I heard from there were such happy sounds….all while their sweet, fierce looking dog, Butch, lay and watched.   When we would sometimes walk over and visit, they were always welcoming us….we felt their love and concern and joy.  The Across the Street Mother got cancer a few years back and fought a valiant fight.  She was so special and dear and I still miss her today.   She was a good neighbor as were the rest of her family, those in her house and her family in the neighborhood.    And wow, wouldn’t she be proud of her girls and grandchildren today?  I know she would.  She made a difference in my life and I have treasured memories of her that I hope remain with me for all time. 

With all that said, I will end my post today with a memory of The Across the Street Husband.  He was an exceptional neighbor as well.  If I recall correctly, he worked for the railroad and would be working several days in a row and be off several days in a row.  I recall a day when The Girl was very young.  Our grass was a bit high on that particular day.  Her little inflatable pool was in the back yard.  I recall as though it were yesterday that she was standing by the den window looking out at that pool and said, “Mama, there’s a snake out at my pool.”  Well, let my legs freeze in place would you?   I slowly walked to the window, all the while thinking that she had never seen a snake and maybe she was wrong.  She wasn’t.  There with it’s head poised above that high grass was a big one—probably a mama or grandmama.  I, of course, panicked inside and thought what to do.  So I did what every smart woman would do.  I picked up the phone and called The Across the Street Husband.   Luckily for me, it was his day off and he was home.  He immediately came with his hoe, searched, and found that snake just as it was going onto the property behind us.  No, he wasn’t successful in sending it to whatever eternity snakes go to, but he was a good neighbor in that he came and tried.  I miss him, too, since he moved away to another neighborhood.  I thought of him and that experience the other day as I stood at the end of my driveway. 

All the things I’ve learned from these experiences can be applied to my life today.  I've learned that I should not have any fear of “things”….there are always those willing to help me face my fears or at least get rid of the feared object for me.   I've learned that love and concern we have for others can change a person’s day or even their life.   We can all make a difference.  After all, the good book teaches that we are all neighbors…every one of us.  

Amen.

Monday, May 5, 2014

May 5

On this day two years ago, our family celebrated the wedding of The Girl and her prince.  I plan to celebrate them again by enjoying a time of lunch and visiting with The Girl's mother-in-law today.  We might speak of how we have grown to love each other's child and feel as that one is our own.  We might speak of how sweet both of them are.  We might speak of how happy we are that they both have wonderful "in-laws" who have become friends.   We might not speak of them at all, who knows?  (Yeah, right...we're mamas.)  One thing I am certain is that we will both be giving thanks to the Lord for His goodness in bringing the two of them together.  So Happy Anniversary to The Girl and The Son-In-Law!


  

Saturday, April 12, 2014

REJOICE!

It's THAT time again!  My favorite time of the year.  It's the week before we celebrate the resurrection of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!  I love Easter!

For you that have read regularly for a while now, you might remember last year the week before Easter I began writing daily about events leading up to this wonderful time of celebration.  I don't think I'm doing that this year but plan to go back and read my last-year thoughts....since my thoughts remain the same this year.  The subject is so dear to me.  If you are interested in revisiting that section of posts, the first is "My Favorite Time of the Year "(March 22, 2013) and the last is "Up"  (April 1, 2013).  Do not read them in order of appearance in this blog as it goes from newest to oldest but read in order of date.

The purpose of this post is to encourage you to get your own Bible and begin reading these events for yourself.  Tomorrow being the day we classify on the calendar as Palm Sunday would be a great time to start.  I am helping you out by listing some of the readings at the end of this post.  Year after year I have heard my daddy talk about doing this reading this particular week and what an humbling experience reading the scripture is.  From my own experience, I know this to be the truth.

I challenge you to take the time each day to read of what our Lord endured that final week.  I guarantee you that you will be blessed beyond measure.

Some of the Easter cards I have sent this year to shut-ins were very plain but the words on the front just gave me that warm and fuzzy feeling.  The cards simply said, "He has risen, just as He said He would."  Wow.

So....let your heart hurt for what He suffered for you and for me.  Let your heart feel the compassion for the physical pain He felt.  Let your heart cry for the emotional pain of His feeling forsaken.  Let your heart feel the awe of the love He had for you and me.  Then let your heart rejoice for He has risen, just as He said He would!

Yes, this Easter week and EVERY week to come....rejoice!


Jesus rides into Jerusalem.....Matt 21:1-11; Mark 11:1-11; Luke 19:29-40; John 12:12-19
The Last Supper with the twelve....Matt. 26:17-30; Mark 14:12-26; Luke 22:3-39; John 13
Sold out....Matt 26: 1-16;  Mark 14:1-2, 10-11:  Luke 22:1-6
In the Garden....Matthew 26:36-56; Mark14: 32-52; Luke 22:39-53; John 17, 18:1-11
Guilty?.....Matthew 26:57-75; Mark14:53-72;  Luke 22:54-71; John 18:12-27
A Dark Day....Matthew 27:1-66; Mark 15:1-47; Luke 23; John 18:28-42
The Tomb....Matthew 28; Mark 16; Luke 24; John 20

And ALL God's people said, "Amen!"

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

WEDNESDAY THOUGHTS


Here in my world, as most likely in yours, it’s Wednesday.  Hump Day as some call it.  Choir night we call it.  For the bulk of this week I have been home alone.  You might expect that I’ve accomplished much being at home.  And alone.  Not so.  I wish I could say it was true and I have tried.  I REALLY have tried, but I get so distracted with “things”.  I will say, though, I have done a lot of thinking  and guess I have accomplished some things or parts of some things.

I have walked my now routine three miles all three mornings this week.  This week I did it in 55:18.  Pretty good for an older girl, huh?  I would say especially one that has been as slow as I have been most of my recent life.  I feel very empowered after I do that walk each day.  Sweaty and tired, but empowered. 

I rejoiced when I did my routine weigh-in this morning and the scale told me I was a pound less than before.  That makes about 33ish, I guess. 

Having received a Type 2 Diabetes diagnosis three months ago, I am striving to change my way of living when it comes to food and exercise.  I have gained so much more respect for The Girl and the fact that she’s lived with Type 1 diabetes for so many years.  Even though many of those years I did a lot of the shots and such for her, I see now how hard it was when those sugars were not where they should be.  I am coming along.  Slowly but coming along.  One of the struggles I have is when I am home for three days in a row and do a lot of cooking.  The pantry in my house is so inviting.  It’s sooooo hard to eat healthy things when I want some of those snacks.  My eyes tell my stomach that it’s hungry but I know that it’s really not.  It’s a struggle that I will get a handle on.  So today when I had my lunch, I was excited that it was somewhat healthy.  And a plateful.  Okay it was a small plate but it was full.   I took a picture for you to see.




I discovered the salad with the carrots at my neighborhood grocery store where the nice lady does the portable cooking.  Yum.  It’s delicious.  And the chicken salad is my own recipe while the crackers are a new gluten free kind I found, Nabisco Gluten Free Rice Thins—Black pepper kind.  Yum.  I will put the recipes at the end of this post for you who are interested.

So, now that I have said all that unimportant stuff, I will get to my point.  I went outside to eat my lunch.  It was cool today even though the sun was shining.  As I sat there eating, I noticed an animal zipping across my yard.  It was the prettiest little rabbit.  It’s name had to be Peter.  I got a smile and warm feeling when I saw it. 

Every day twice a day at our house, five deer come into our yard to eat our weeds.  Our grass is not very good looking, but the weeds get very green in the summer and give the illusion of grass.  I had gone out right before dark last night, turned the corner and there were those deer.  They just stood and looked at me.  They didn’t run, nor did they seem afraid.  They just looked at me and then kept eating.  I also enjoyed them on Monday during the rain when they played in the ponds that had formed in my yard from the rain.  No cares.  No worries.  Just delight. 

So I guess the point of my thought process today is that I am again reminded of how much my God cares for me.  In the sermon on Sunday I got such a blessing when the preacher said that if God lined up everyone in the world, He would assure everyone that He loved them all the same.  I was so blessed because it reminded me again of that great love.  For me.  And for you.   I knew that was the truth and that He loves me in spite of my sins.  In spite of my distractions.  He loves me.  And just as that little rabbit and those deer know how to live in the world because their creator made them that way, I can overcome any problems, any worries, and any cares just because my creator knows me and loves me. 

And it makes me ever so happy to tell you about His love again.  I hope it makes you happy to hear it and know that Jesus loves you, too!



Chicken Salad

2 large chicken breasts  *see note
l small can crushed pineapple in juice, drained
1-1.5 cups chopped pecans
Mayo to your taste

*The chicken is delicious if smoked in a smoker but that is too much trouble for me.  I boil the chicken, drain and chop it then add liquid smoke to taste before adding the pineapple, nuts, and mayo.


Cucumber Carrot Salad
l/4 c. sweet chili sauce (I cut this back for the lower sugar effect.)
2 T. seasoned rice wine vinegar
1 large cucumber, peeled, thinly sliced
1 c. matchstick carrots
½ c. sliced green onions

Whisk chili sauce and vinegar in medium bowl until blended.
Peel cucumber, cut in half lengthwise and slice.  Add cucumber and remaining ingredients to sauce mixture; toss to coat.  Chill until ready to serve.